To Grandmother's House We Go is the new awesome
However, as you might imagine, there were all sorts of things behind cabinets and other closed doors that a Granddaughter wouldn't usually have reason to find under normal circumstances.
The obligatory handgun in the sash drawer:
The secret stash of booze in the wrapping paper closet:
And the book called Boners on the top shelf of a bunch of old books (actually printed in 1931 and illustrated by Dr.Seuss)
Best of all, though, were the personal items. The love letters that my Grandfather had written her. Old highschool yearbooks. Family portraits. Look at some of these gems:
My Grammy and my Grandpa, back when they were first married. (Check out how good my grandfather looks in a uniform!)
Zowie.
This one of my mother as a little girl making a happy face really killed me. You would be amazed at how many photos she was scowling in. Or maybe you wouldn't. My mom never has much liked getting her photo taken.
See?
My mom might kill me for putting this one up:
But I can make it up to her by putting up one of my own. Looks like nerdy glasses are hereditary.
My parent's wedding:
And of course, lots of baby photos:
I know it was hard for my Grammy to know that we were going through her possessions, and that the way that she has been accustomed to living independently for the past 96 years was changing rather dramatically. But I think it made her happy to know that we found things in her house to remind us of her, and that so many of the things that she had loved were going to stay with people that had loved her and appreciated her beautiful things.
Don't worry, Grammy. This is what I had to take my portion home in (and I could have used a bigger one to hold all the memories):
21 Comments:
At 5:06 PM, f*bomb. said…
umm...If I recall- YOU make that scowly face in pictures!
It must be hereditary...
At 8:08 PM, MLE said…
So sweet. I love this post.
We found similar treasures in my grandma's house. Turns out that kids don't need glasses to look like nerds. I accomplished the nerd look with my hip hair-styles and tee-shirts tucked into jeans.
At 8:30 PM, Betsy said…
Um, can we talk about how rad the nerdy glasses photos are?
At 10:12 PM, Anonymous said…
awww...this brought back so many memories for me...of five months ago. we did the same thing at my g-ma's house...only we couldn't take much home with us on account of the 3,000 miles between our house and hers (i did a blog then, too!).
the photos and memories were the best part, though. especially the nerdy ones of my dad in high school. and pre-braces. and with gangly limbs. and in an awesome spaceman outfit one christmas...ah, the list goes on...
At 11:22 PM, m-l-e said…
a UHAUL? A UHAUL?!!! when you drove back did you just sing "i've got a golden ticket" the whole time? Because pretty much that's what a truck full of grandmother treasures is. Man. I'm jealous, but in the happy for you way, really.
At 1:29 AM, Erica said…
definitely your mother's daughter. girl, glad that grammy's was not only a gold mine of old pics and memories...but you filled your uhaul w/ even more treasures!
At 9:54 AM, TUG said…
Did you take the gun and/or the booze?
At 10:33 AM, bex said…
Not the gun or the booze. But the book about Boners? Yes.
At 7:39 PM, corinne said…
i loved this post and i love the new awesome. just wanted to say that.
At 8:13 PM, Tannerama said…
That gun is awesome.
At 10:26 PM, Leslie said…
Wow. I am so excited that my grandmother wasn't the only person who kept her handgun handy and easy to access.
At 7:00 AM, plainoldsarah said…
am i the only one who teared up over that post? thank you! hooray for good memories and good people in our lives. and good glasses.
At 9:36 AM, MF said…
Forgive me, Bex, for I have sinned. It has been about 3 months since my last look at thenewawesome. What an adventure for you and your family on so many levels.
two things. the sweet sweep across with extra flow haircut...nice. the booze closet. classy. that almost sounds like a new restaurant/lounge.
Grammy's Booze Closet.
Anyway, good to be with you again.
At 9:43 AM, Cindy Bean said…
I love grandma treasures. Emily's comment pretty much sums up what my comment would be. A whole Uhaul?!?!?!?!? Lucky!
At 12:20 AM, bex said…
aw, thanks guys.
and mikef? you are forgiven, but only if your repentance is sincere and you visit TNA every day for the rest of your life.
At 4:42 PM, amanda said…
is that seuss book for real?! someone told me he did some "questionable" work before the fabulous "where the sidewalk ends" and others. i wish i had such a treasure.
At 12:01 PM, David said…
reba - glasses only a mother, and sally jessy raphael, could love.
At 10:22 PM, The UnMighty said…
I can only assume that the saddest day of any granddaughters life is the day she discovers her Grammy was addicted to violence, alcohol, and porn. Stay close to her as she will be needing you in these desparate times.
At 12:32 PM, MF said…
hate to be the one who drops this, but dr suess did not write "where the sidewalk ends." try again.
At 9:00 AM, bex said…
true, mike. it was shel silverstein. and he really did used to write kind of racy stuff under the name shelly silverstein, before he dropped that girlie sounding ly.
At 9:48 AM, Unknown said…
Well, your FATHER"S mother's stash never included a handgun. The booze cabinet, the "Boners" book, perhaps. But she gave up handguns when she got out of the FBI. Good stuff.
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